Boundaries and freedom and caring each are a part of a positive relationship. When I found the chrysalis of the swallowtail and placed it in the peanut butter jar, I knew I would need to release it someday. The butterfly would be stunted if it emerged and was never set free. As it was, part of a wing tore because it didn't have enough room.
I'm thankful for friends who allow me to grow and spread my wings and become a bigger better me.