Allowed to burn. That it the key. The design you created won't live/glow/exist properly without a burning light. It is just an empty shell waiting to shine.
I love people who light me. People who allow me to burn. People who give me a chance to glow. I sometimes forget to accept their fire into me, I am sorry for that. Thankfully, most of them care enough to give me another chance. Pretty awesome of them!